A week ago, I lost the most amazing and positive male influence I had growing up. My Papa. My mothers father. He was everything I wanted to be. The way he loved his wife set the standard for any man I dated. I traveled the long distance (24+ hours and 3 plane rides) to be there to say Thank You to my hero. Seeing my nanny at his casket for the first time in 3 years, and realizing she had no idea who I was until I told her.... It broke my heart. After his services and his buri